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Give me just 7 days, and I’ll help you stop living for everyone else and finally get clear on the life you want.
You’ll walk away knowing what you truly want, why you want it, and how to finally choose it without guilt, fear, or apology.Â
Join The Eldest DaughterClarity Challenge!
Dear Eldest Daughter,
I know what it’s like to forget how to dream for yourself.
You’ve spent so long proving, performing and protecting others that even thinking about what you want feels selfish. Maybe even impossible.
You’ve shaped your entire life around not being a burden.
You never ask for help. You overachieve. You quiet your needs.
Because being “good” meant being selfless. And focusing on yourself? That felt wrong.
You learned how to read everyone else’s emotions before your own.
You became whoever they needed you to be, and somewhere along the way, you lost touch with who you are.
And all of this has left you feeling lost and disconnected.
You’ve been everything for everyone… except yourself.
But that changes today.
You’re reading this because something inside you knows this isn’t the life you were meant to settle for.
You’re not happy with where things are, not because you’re ungrateful, but because deep down, you know there’s more.
You want to live a life that actually fulfills you. A life that excites you. That feels like yours.
A life that reflects what God has actually placed on your heart — not just what your family, culture, or community expected from you.
No more expectations. No more people pleasing.
Just you finally choosing yourself.
To get to this life, to get to this point,
It all starts with clarity.
Which is why I created…
The Eldest Daughter’s Clarity Challenge
A 7 day journey to help you get crystal clear on the life you want.
Rediscover your desires. Reclaim your vision.
And walk away knowing exactly what you want in life — even if you’ve spent years prioritizing everyone else and feel completely disconnected from your own desires.
Here’s the Schedule for
the Challenge:
Day 1:
Why You’re So Tired All the Time (And It’s Not Just Burnout)
We’ll unpack the hidden emotional labor, pressure, and responsibility you’ve been carrying, and why it’s left you feeling drained and disconnected.
You'll explore:
- The invisible roles you took on (therapist, third parent, fixer)
- How “being the strong one” became your identity
- What you’ve been holding that was never meant to be yours
You’ll finish Day 1 having named the weight you’ve been carrying in silence and taken the first step toward setting it down.
Day 2:
Who Are You Without the Pressure to Be Perfect?
We’ll start separating your true identity from the roles you were forced to play, so you can stop living on autopilot and start feeling like you again.
In this lesson, you’ll explore:
- How perfection, pressure, and responsibility shaped your identity
- What you’ve buried to meet expectations
- How to begin reclaiming the version of you that existed before the pressure
By the end of Day 2, you’ll have started reconnecting with the woman you were always meant to be.
Day 3:
Why Wanting More Doesn’t Make You Selfish
You’ll finally release the guilt that’s been keeping you stuck, and start giving yourself permission to want more without shame or fear.
We’ll break down:
- How guilt has shaped your relationship to rest, money, and freedom
- Why wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful
- How to separate inherited guilt from your actual values
By the end of Day 3, you’ll have given yourself permission to want what you want, without apology.
Day 4:
Get Clear On What You
Actually Want
(Not What Was Expected of You)
You’ll uncover your real desires, the ones that have been buried under responsibility, fear, and expectations, and finally put them into words.
In this lesson, you’ll explore:
- What you’d choose if no one else’s opinion mattered
- What your dream day, lifestyle, and work actually look like
- How to write a bold, honest vision without watering it down
You’ll finish Day 4 with a clear picture of the life you actually want, not the one others expected from you.
Day 5:
Break Through What’s Really Holding You Back
We’ll identify the deep emotional and cultural blocks that keep you shrinking, second-guessing, or settling, and start releasing them together.
In this lesson, you’ll explore:
- The beliefs and fears that keep you from owning your desires
- Where those stories came from, and whether they’re still true
- How to begin releasing the internal blocks with truth and compassion
By the end of Day 5, you’ll be clear on what’s been standing in your way, and more free to move past it.
Day 6:
Build the Life You Actually Want — On Paper, On Purpose
You’ll map out your dream life in full detail, and meet the version of you who’s ready to live it boldly.
In this lesson, you’ll explore:
- What you want to create in every area of your life
- The identity and mindset of the woman who lives it
- How to write your clarity vision, not for someday, but starting now
You’ll walk away from Day 6 with your full life vision on paper, written clearly, boldly, and without compromise.
Day 7:
Protect Your Peace, Your Vision, and Your Future
You’ll set powerful boundaries and create a personal declaration so you never lose sight of who you are and what you want again.
In this lesson, you’ll explore:
- What you’re choosing to walk away from for good
- Why clarity without boundaries turns back into confusion
- How to hold your truth with confidence, dignity, and peace
By the end of Day 7, you’ll have claimed the life you want, and declared what you’re no longer available for.
Here’s how it works:
For 7 days, you’ll receive a guided experience delivered straight to your inbox, each one designed to help you cut through the noise, reflect deeply, and get clear on the life you want to create. Each day includes a powerful reflection, a guided journaling prompt, and biblical scriptures to meditate on to reinforce the message.
This isn’t fluff. It’s intentional, deep-level work designed to help you stop living on autopilot and start building a life that actually fulfills you.Â
You won’t just know what you want, you’ll finally feel free to go after it.
ENROLL TODAYIt’s No Secret...
Clarity is your compass.
It’s your guidepost, the thing you return to when you feel lost, stuck, or unsure of what comes next.
It helps you filter out the noise, spot what’s aligned, and move toward the life that was meant for you.
Clarity is your map. Your framework. Your foundation for every decision you make.
Without it?
You’ll keep living the life someone else handed you.
You might look “successful” on the outside (stable job, decent money, a life that checks all the boxes) but on the inside?
You’ll feel the ache. That quiet sense that something’s missing. That there’s more to life, and you’re not living it.
Because fulfillment doesn’t come from following expectations. It comes from following truth — your truth.
The Eldest Daughter’s Clarity Challenge is your opportunity to finally uncover that truth.
To get crystal clear on what you want, what’s been holding you back, and what it’s going to take to live a life that actually feels like yours.
Who’s this challenge for?
This Challenge is For the Daughter Who…
- Spent her whole life putting everyone else first
- Feels guilty for even wanting more
- Was held to higher standards, and now struggles to rest or receive
- Has been silently wondering if the life you’re building is even yours
- Is faith-driven and ready to align with what God really wants for you — not just what your parents, culture, or community expect
 Ready to Finally Get Clear on the Life You Want (Not What Was Expected of You)? Here’s What You Can Expect From The Eldest Daughter’s Clarity Challenge
Before the Challenge:
❌ You feel unclear about what you truly want in life
❌ You second-guess yourself and constantly seek outside validation
❌ You feel torn between your desires and everyone else’s expectations
❌ You carry guilt for wanting more or dreaming bigger
❌ You’re going through the motions, but something feels missing
After the Challenge:
âś… You have crystal-clear clarity on the life you want to create
âś… You feel confident choosing a path that aligns with your values and vision
✅ You’ve released the guilt that’s kept you playing small
✅ You know what’s no longer serving you — and what you're finally ready to say yes to
✅ You’re no longer just surviving — you’re choosing a life that excites and fulfills you
What’s Your Investment?
The investment to join The Eldest Daughter’s Clarity Challenge is just $27 — a one-time payment for a life-changing 7-day experience.
I’ve made plenty of free resources before, but this challenge isn’t one of them — and that’s intentional.
This isn’t for the casually curious.
It’s for the eldest daughters who are ready to stop living on autopilot and start building a life that finally feels like their own.
If you’ve spent years shrinking, second-guessing, or living for other people’s expectations — this challenge is for you.
This isn’t just journaling prompts. It’s a guided clarity experience that walks you step-by-step through the exact process to:
- Uncover what you really want
- Break free from guilt and emotional blocks
- Map out the life that excites and fulfills you
- And finally start choosing yourself with confidence
You’ll walk away with a crystal-clear vision for your life — and the version of you who’s ready to live it.
I could easily charge more for the depth of this experience. But because you’re here — and you’re part of this community — I want to make it accessible.
So your full investment? Just $27.
That’s it.
And for what you’re walking away with? It might just be the most important $27 you ever spend.
Why Time Is Of The Essence
And it all starts with clarity.
Clarity comes before confidence.
Before peace.
Before bold decisions and big moves.
This challenge is your first step.
And right now, it’s available for just $27 — but that price won’t last.
The investment will be going up to $97 soon, because the value is real and the transformation runs deep.
If you’re feeling the pull… don’t wait.
Your life deserves clarity now.
Don’t wait to choose the life you were meant to live.
DON'T WAIT!
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